A lot of pre-surgery trans people have issues around dysphoria during sex, and this stopped sex dead in its tracks a few times for us. Also he was pretty skilled in the whole sexual department, and I put that down to him being a woman before so he knew how to work female genitalia in a way that a cis man couldn’t.Īpart from the physical side, the emotional side can be pretty intense. We were able to have penetrative sex (I’m a woman, btw). He has been on hormones for 8 years so his growth down there was pretty developed. “My ex is a pre-bottom surgery trans man.Īs the top commenter said, it’s basically like being with a cis dude with a very small dick. It’s basically like being with a cis dude with a very small dick.